4 Reasons Pinterest is Killing Your Wedding Planning

Posted on December 4, 2018 at 9:01 am by Carisa Lockery

I'm going to be real for a second and tell you something you probably don't want to hear:

Pinterest is the DEVIL of wedding planning!

Wow, that felt good to type (wipes sweat off brow). But seriously, let me get into this and backup that statement with cold hard facts.

1. It's Completely Unrealistic.

These weddings that are being pinned are completely over the top. The photos make you fall in love with these elaborate centerpieces with a zillion roses that reach the ceiling, or a dress that you probably couldn't afford if you saved up for your entire life. Then, when you bring these photos to your florist/dress shop/wedding planner/photographer, your dreams are crushed when you hear the price. Stick to looking at photos at local vendors' Facebook and Instagram feeds. These are much more realistic.

2. It's Too Overwhelming.

There is SO MUCH on Pinterest that you start to lose sight of your original vision (literally). What may have started out as a romantic, intimate wedding has now turned into a grand affair. You think this is real life and feel inclined to "keep up with the Jones'". It's YOUR wedding. Do what YOU want and never, ever feel like it isn't enough.

3. It's Addicting.

It can be very time-consuming and addicting to be on Pinterest all the time. Studies show that this is often done at work. Not to mention, many fiancés get ignored during these pinning extravaganzas. Don't let it take over your life!

4. It's All Virtual.

Get off your phone and actually go out and plan your wedding! Meet with potential wedding professionals. Taste the cake. Touch and smell the flowers. Listen to the music and have a face-to-face conversation with your DJ or wedding planner. These are things you can't do via the Internet. These experiences are going to make you feel so special and get you truly excited for your big day!

About the Author

Carisa Lockery

Thanks for stopping by. I'm so excited that you decided to learn more about me!

First and foremost, I am a wife and mother to 2 boys, Kyle and Mason. They're part of the reason that I continued to pursue my dream of being a business owner. Having the ability to make my own hours and still be present for them is invaluable, and an experience for which I will forever be indebted to my amazing husband.

As a kid, I was always organizing everything. I loved stationary and paper and pens and markers and journals and planners and anything else that allowed me to plan and organize. Trapper Keepers and Lisa Frank? Yes, PLEASE! As I got older, that love for organization became a love for planning, particularly fun things like events. I woke up one day with the thought, “Could I actually make a living doing this?”. I had gone to Albertus Magnus College in New Haven, CT for my Bachelor's Degree in Communications, so I had a little knowledge about business and how they worked. When the idea began to formulate more and more in my head, I decided to take my education even further and pursue a Master of Business Administration Degree. Right after I earned this degree, I had my first son, so the timing was perfect! I was able to be home with him during the week while my husband worked, and work at night and on the weekends, when most events took place!

More than 10 years later, I still love bringing the idea and concept of a wedding or event into reality. Each one plays out differently, and I love that! It keeps things fresh and exciting! I can't wait to hear from you and learn all about how I can help with your next event!

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